Every child is different and unique in their own way.   Their uniqueness makes each one special.  Parents know their children better than anyone and what each one’s very special qualities are.  Give small jobs to them that they can do in a short time.  Make a point to compliment and praise for a job well done.  Hearing praise from you gives children great satisfaction in oneself which builds self respect and self esteem.  But most importantly your child will revel in the praise that comes from you.  Find a reason to praise your child each day  – even that smallest compliment makes a huge impact on a childs pride in himself.