How do you think your child feels when you have called him/her a hurtful name?  Hearing  labels hurled at him, a child starts to believe them.   Abusive insults chips away at a childs self esteem and makes them think and feel that they are unloved and unwanted.   Make it a point to tell your child daily how very special he/she is.  Let […]

Children are smart and wise beyond their years but, they are not mind readers.   A child is able to feel your love when you hug them and kiss their sweet faces.  In spite of these acts of love they still need to hear the words ‘I love you’.  These three words, that are so simple to say and […]

Wherever you look these days people are in a hurry going from one priority to another.  How many priorities can a person have and just how important a priority is it really?  For parents who have one or several children, trying to decide how to balance daily demands and  attend to priorities can be stressful.  Knowing exactly what your priorities are help make deciding how […]

As children learn to manuver their way around beginning with crawling and then taking their first steps parents praise them with wild applause and proud words of encouragement.  But each new accomplishment in a childs life is worthy of the same praise as their first steps which will help build their confidence and self esteem.  Small successes lead to big ones and as a […]

Children will ask the same questions repeatedly and because parents have already answered the question once they tend to ignore their child the second and third time around.  The child is not always asking the question becaue she is curious about the answer, but rather looking for attention.  Showing your child that you are interested […]

The act of talking can mean telling someone your thoughts and opinions, listening to their comments, responding with a question, listening, commenting and asking more questions.  The result of conversing is a better understanding of how that person looks at life and interprets it.  Hearing someone else’s way of looking at a situation from a completely different perspective […]

As each day passes ask yourself if you have spent your time wisely.   There are so many demands on each of us that it is easy to let time get away from us and before you know it you feel frustrated at having lost or wasted precious opportunities.  Make time for your children becuase time spent with them is always […]

Sometimes all that is needed to give a child reassurance of your love is the touch of your hand on his hand or the caress of his cheek.  These simple gestures say it all – I love you – without a word being spoken.   Make loving words and gestures a daily part of communication with your child that will leave lifelong feelings of contentment instead […]

One of the most frightening days in a parents life is the day that they bring this tiny bundle home to care for, feed, cloth and LOVE.  This can be an overwhelming feeling thinking about the responsibility the job of caring for, feeding and clothing entails.  But the one thing that looms above all the rest and makes […]

The language of love is spoken in all dialects.   Unlike other languages it is not taught at school or by correspondence or at a certain grade level.  It is taught from the beginning of life by the first teachers in our lives, our parents, grandparents and loved ones.  Hearing the words ‘I love you’ is […]